middleagespread

I'm getting quite into my blogging these days, and enjoying spouting off here and there, even if no one's reading it.
My latest, middle aged moan is attactions.
I happened to be dropping a relative off at southampton airport the other day, and suggested to my hubby that we should go and visit Bucklers hard, the ship building village as i have never been there.
When we got there we entered quite a nice 'toll' room where was displayed a price list. The minimum price to walk down and through the village was a criminal £5.60 per person.
When i asked the polite lady behind the counter whether this was for the village she affirmed and added that for this we could go in the museum too.
I loudly turned down her kind offer to take a total of £11.20 off us and explained that if they reduced the prices i may be encouraged to visit- or words to that effect.
Fortunately another couple who were also waiting to go to the village agreed with me and headed back to their car too.
Surely, if these places stopped this ridiculous policeing of places and therefore having to pay staff to man their territories they could reduce their fees and this would encourage interested visitors.
Do these places also receive grant and or public funds to aid the maintenence for these places? If they do, are we not paying them many times over for the privilage of visiting our own heritage? As it turns out i'm sure i'm not alone in being ignorant to what a lot of these places look like, feel like and am losing the desire to know more about them as i simply cannot aford to spend what little i have left over each month on extortionate entrance fees. Maybe if i had a benefit book in hand, and didn't try to stand on my own two feet i would gain.
In dorset we already have the exceptionally greedy national trust with their inexplicably high parking charges on the beaches at studland. two years ago i was going home via the sandbanks ferry ( i do not live in sandbanks, but a much less exclusive area of poole), and wanted to stop for a coffee at the pub at studland and was told that the parking charge of £8.00 would be necessary. As almost all the roads are now double yellow lined around studland, which is understandable as they are very narrow, car parks are the only option- but £8 for a coffee break! I ask you.
I apologise now to the lady in the parking kiosk for my foul mouthed reply, but do these people have no shame? Are they, like the gestapo were, chosen for their absolute loyalty and unscrupulous behaviour?
I understand that preservation comes at a cost- but in a lot of cases, these groups or organisations set about preserving something by advertising it widely and encouraging multitudes of people to visit which seems to be the cause of a lot of damage, then proclaim that they must charge hellish amounts of money to visit these things etc etc.
Wouldn't it be great if we all said a loud and united 'NO' to this behaviour, to force down these prices and get some value for our hard earned money.
Surely local people should be entitled to visit local attractions. Strike that. Surely every person living in Britain should be entitled to visit these attractions gratis. We do pay enough taxes both nationally and locally- and i will argue the toss with anyone who declares otherwise.
Thank you for bothering to read this

Following my first blog, i am pleased to comment on the common sense reported by surrey police to take the common sense route to policeing. At last someone has deemed that we can live in a non target driven society. Hurray!!
Let's hope more and more institutions follow the example of this one and get back to doing the jobs they were set up to do instead of pandying to politicians.
Interestingly, today it has been announced that the government is now going to put forward a plan to stop ciggie companies from branding their products. Hmmmm. I find this very interesting at how far this nanny state is prepared to interfere with my life. Not only does it attempt- with much success- to ban using this product in many areas, which on the whole is not too bad an idea, but now it wishes to banish it from the shelves. I would like to know of other products which are quite legal to purchase and use over the age of consent, to which we are banned from seeing and very restricted in using.
I will give a parody- if that's the right expression. A shop can legally sell shoes- manufacturers can legally make the product- people can buy the product quite legally, but the government decides that it is illegal to wear shoes.
I'll leave that thought with you for a while.
Bye

This is my first attempt to 'blog', and i'm not sure how this works, but i'll give it a go.
I'm not really sure what a blog is- is it a rant, should it be poetic, can i use this new found tool to express my opinions?
As a middle aged woman- i regard myself as middle aged as i don't expect to live well into my nineties- i am getting weary of the repetitive nature of life and society. Where are the rebels these days? Why have we become so hum drum in England?
Conformity is everywhere i look, and acceptance of the words of bureaucrats, politicians, and big business.
Am i really happy to sit back and watch as my privacy is invaded at every turn. The answer is of course no.
Am i really happy to sit back and watch as the basic standard of living which i inhabit is stretched to breaking point- i am one of the many childless people on low income who cannot get tax credits, assistance for rates etc etc- while i watch the underbelly smugly smile (knowingly) at my efforts to support myself without government help. The answer is again a resounding NO.
I had a conversation recently with a relative who insisted on pointing out how we got here- in this present situation- citing Thatcher and the politicians of the 80s, I argued that it doesn't matter how we got here, the fact is we are here, and nobody (en mass) is doing anything about it. I used an agument of a broken vase- it inevitably doesn't matter how much you analyse who broke it, it is still broken and either needs replacing or repairing.
I am awaiting a brave soul who will start a rebellion and offer a future for all, not just the top and bottom of my society.
As a footnote, i am generally a happy person, but this is on my mind today and i thought i'd share it with you.
Thank you for reading!